Life is made of a billion choices, both dust-tiny and momentous, until we’ve woven the thread of our lifetime like a choose-your-own-adventure book that reads only forward. I want always to be kind, hurt no one, give and love. But those are ideals to seek, not decisions made. My world has always been built of shifting sands, a pool of gray washing in and out with the tide, lines built, blurred, and wiped away. Perhaps because the kindest person I’ve ever known was the most flawed, I can see goodness in those poor choices and emptiness behind apparently successful ones. So how do I keep up with all that I want, all that I feel, all that I think, and all that must be done to do what’s right?
Do I, in any given day, make coffee; kick, punch, takedown, sprawl, fight to quiet my ever-active mind; change my toothbrush or my oil; buy organic; let the waves crash over me in the salty ocean, warmer than the air, and watch the light of a thousand dinoflagellates trail from our fingertips like pixie dust, our bodies haloed in bioluminescence; recycle plastics; get high; limit love because a path has been chosen where it cannot be, cork it tight, know with a glance how much lies within that bottle that cannot be opened; write a eulogy; watch the rain sizzle on hot blacktop; eat pie for dinner; wear my braces; sit next to her in bed in her last hours while she talks in a morphine delusion of a body that still works; give them what they paid for, data analysis of 31 elder care facilities, costed per resident per day, while the nurse is fired for using prenatal needles that don’t collapse the aged veins but cost $0.50 more each; donate non-perishables; invest in small-cap equities; stand at the end of the pier with the wind blowing my hair back and listen to my cousin hum in the background; rest with my head on your shoulder and want more; open a beer; watch a movie; imagine a hug into a love affair; or ruin the moment again with too many questions.